i met a 16-year-old patient today who truly made my heart ache. she was born addicted to heroin, grew up watching her mother continue to use, and lost her mother to overdose. at that time, this girl – 14 years old at the time – began to use. two years later, she is lost to her addiction and terrified that she will meet the same fate as her mom.

listening to this girl’s story was so so hard.. and i fear that she won’t break the cycle.  she has been to rehab 5 times and never stopped using, even while in these programs.  her dad kicked her out of the house, and she is living in a youth group home that is not equipped to handle addicted teens.  while her withdrawal is over, the urge is still there and the pain is great.  i felt helpless, and it was exhausting just taking it all in.

the doc i work with was incredibly understanding, compassionate, and up front with her.  he was so very honest and genuine, and it was so clear that he truly wanted to work with her to help her escape the cycle.  the way that he was able to affirm her, hear her experience, and offer hope – THIS is what being a healer is all about.  this type of approach is what i will continue to strive for.